We’re free to act, look, and feel how we want – and it’s totally ok to explore other roles and dress the way we please. In marriage, dressing your husband as a woman might be really empowering for you and for him as well – and may enhance your mood and sex life.
Technology is changing around us, new history is being created, and we’re evolving. It’s time to ditch the stereotypical gender roles and be open with our sexuality and fluidity.
Read on to learn more about the benefits of cross-dressing, and for 7 tips on how to do it right!
Benefits of Your Man Dressing as a Woman
It can feed their curiosity.
Have you ever imagined what it might be like to live as a man, in their body? Just thinking about it is a unique experience. You might want to know how they do things, dress, and feel – and it’s the same for men too.
Ladies, you may have noticed this natural curiosity if your man has asked you to paint his nails or even wear a face mask! Let him experience it properly.
They’ll appreciate you more.
When it comes to the man you love, we reckon you make that extra bit of effort to look better than usual. Maybe you spend more time on your hair, makeup, and heart-racing outfit for him to look at. Either way, the effort you make to look good just screams “I love you”.
In most cases, men don’t see all the effort and time you’ve spent. Therefore, if you choose to dress them as a woman, make sure you do it properly – so they can truly see and understand how much effort you put in for them. You never know what it could lead to in the future when it comes to them putting in the effort of their own.
It can better your sex life.
As a married couple, sex and your relationship can often become mundane. After all, humans are naturally creatures of habit, which means that we like to stick to the same routine.
One way of spicing up your sex life is by dressing your husband up as a woman. You could act out roleplay as a same-sex couple or even just make it kinkier in the bedroom.
They’ll get a better idea of what you like.
Do you trust your husband to buy clothes, makeup, and accessories for you? It can be difficult for men to do so if they don’t fully understand your choices.
If you get him to dress up in a few of your outfits, they’ll be able to feel the quality of the fabric, brand, and see the colors.
10 Tips on Dressing Your Husband as a Woman
Now that you have a general idea of why dressing your husband as a woman might be beneficial, it’s important to know how to do it successfully. Keep reading to learn more.
1. Make sure you’re ready.
First of all, you don’t want to just throw your husband into women’s clothes without being certain that you’re fully confident with your husband dressing up as a woman. Once you see this image, you won’t be able to get it out of your head.
2. Persuade your husband.
Who’s idea is it? Is it yours or your husband’s?
If it’s your idea, you may have to come out with some cute ideas to persuade him. For example, you can play a game where the loser has to participate in a dare, which would be that they have to dress up like a woman. Similarly, if you’re roleplaying in the bedroom, you could always suggest it in the heat of the moment.
3. Pick an outfit out in advance.
If your husband is dressing up as a woman for the first time, it can be pretty overwhelming to see so many outfits, makeup, and accessories. You’ll want to pay careful consideration on how you’d like to dress him up, especially since he may never want to do this again.
Before you put the clothes on him, you should think about whether he will wear the outfit in public or private.
Lingerie, for instance, is a great way to make him feel like a woman, but only you will know about it. Letting him wear women’s lingerie in a public setting will make you feel great and allow you to have the upper hand. Similarly, it’ll also be a more comfortable experience for your husband if he’s nervous about going out in public.
Skirts are also a subtle way to add to your man’s outfit if he’s style well. Unlike a dress or high-waisted shorts, skirts can be more discreet and add a bit of flair.
4. Reconsider dressing him in strapless clothing.
If you’re planning on dressing your husband in an outfit with no straps or one that doesn’t cover the shoulders, you might want to think again. Men naturally have broad shoulders, so they pop out – and you can instantly tell it’s a man from a far distance.
Opt for an outfit that covers his shoulders – so no boob tube, halter necks, bralettes, off-the-shoulder tops, or dresses.
If you choose to dress him in a strapless top, you may want to use a jacket, shawl, or lovely scarf to cover his shoulders or choose thicker straps that are more flattering.
5. Choose clothes that flatter his figure
Your man might be broader, taller, and more muscular than you. Because of this, it can be tempting to choose clothes that have more of a baggier fit – but, full form-fitting clothes actually provide a better image, and will give the illusion of curves.
6. Chose darker colors.
When dressing your husband up as a woman for the first time, it can be quite exciting, and it may be hard for you to restrain yourself. There are so many options and colors out there! While you have a lot of options to experiment with, sticking to darker-colored clothing will allow you to hide certain parts of the body.
Darker colors will make your husband look slimmer, and more feminine. If you’re dressing him in a light color, be conscious of how the colors make him look. Be mindful of any bold colors you choose, as they can make him stand out.
7. Dress him how you would dress yourself.
What better way to dress him well than taking advice from YOURSELF? After all, you’re a woman and know what combinations work well.
Finding clothes in your own style, and match your husbands body type will be the best way to dress him.
8. Pay attention to size and fabric.
Are you planning on dressing your husband using your wardrobe, or do you plan to buy new clothes? If you’re buying clothes online, you’ll be pleased to know there are many cross-dressing sites on the web.
These websites will tell you sizes upfront for men, and they’re pretty accurate. Take measures of your husband first, and order the proper sized outfit for him online.
If you’re still not sure what size your husband might be, you can always take his measurements and submit them to a seller. They’ll help guide you and come up with the appropriate size for him.
9. Use crossdressing lingerie.
If you’re going to dress up your husband as a woman, you’ll want to go the whole way – which means letting them rock women’s underwear. If you don’t want your lingerie spoiled or if it’s a bit too small for him, you can always go out and buy some.
Crossdressing lingerie might be the best option, as they’re made to look feminine and are designed to hold men’s goods. For instance, a crossdressing bra that can fit well on a man and provide extra padding, making them look like they have a full bust. You can buy underwear with padding that hides the outline of their genitals, and will also enhance their booty.
10. Educate them!
Even if they may never wear women’s clothes again, use this opportunity to teach them about different clothing items and how to look after them. When it comes to household errands like washing or ironing, they’ll know how to treat your clothes with care.
The Bottom Line
Dressing your husband as a woman can have a range of benefits, including feeding their curiosity, making them understand your clothing choices more, and improved sex life.
But, if your husband is hesitant, the tips above are a surefire way to make him comfortable. Remember to choose dark clothes, flatter his figure and avoid strapless outfits. Hide your husband’s muscles and private parts using an outfit with padding.