Oh, the things you can tell about a man just by knowing his birthday.
It’s incredible how many things a star sign can tell you about a person – from their work style, to how romantic or committed they are, to what they like to do for fun.
Libra man in a nutshell
Born between 23 September and 23 October, at the very start of autumn, Libra is signified by the scales on the zodiac, is ruled by the planet Venus, and is an air sign.
A terrific lover, an intellectual, and highly charismatic, a Libra man attracts attention wherever he goes.
While he might be a bit indecisive, a bit hot and cold, or even confusing at times, he still makes an amazing boyfriend.
Famous Libra men include Eminem, Bruno Mars, Zac Efron, and Simon Cowell.
Understanding a Libra man
As exciting as is it to date a Libra, first and foremost you need to understand his behavior. With that can come some challenges.
The most important thing to know about Libra is that he’s a massive fan of balance and seeks equilibrium and harmony in everything that he does.
It’s unlikely that you can change this trait in him, after all, he’s all about weighing his chances and finding pros and cons.
He’s extremely logical, so arm yourself with patience.
Want to get to know a Libra man better? Here are 18 personality traits and characteristics to keep in mind.
1. He is attracted to self-confidence
If you are being too needy or too weak with your Libra man, he will get bored of you quickly. Not only that, but he won’t respect you.
This man is attracted to confident women. He knows what he wants and ultimately, he wants to be with a woman who’s similar.
Your confidence will give him the stability that he desperately seeks in life.
If he can’t make up his mind about the simplest things, you can anchor him – and he will find this incredibly sexy.
2. He’s indecisive
This man is infamous for his indecisiveness; he’s terrified of making a mistake.
He weighs absolutely everything, and as a result, can take ages to make up his mind about something.
If you are dating a Libra and he’s avoiding making a big decision, you may need to give him an ultimatum – in a nice way – and reassure him that it’s okay to take a risk as it’s all part of learning.
He doesn’t need to make the perfect decision each time, but he will certainly obsess over it.
Another thing: Watch out for a Libra man who might be wasting your time.
Have you been together for years and he won’t pop the question or suggest moving in together? Perhaps it’s time to find a more decisive man.
3. He’s sensual
Naturally, this man is extremely sensual. After all, his ruling planet is Venus, named after the Roman goddess of beauty and love.
He is attracted to beautiful things, to exquisite art, sexual pleasure, and poetry.
He cannot resist a good-looking, well-put-together woman. Want to sweep him off his feet early on?
Make an effort for your date! He won’t be able to take his eyes off you.
4. He’s a goal-getter
This man is all about initiation, so expect him to always react to a trigger.
He’s got a goal-getter attitude, so will often call out for improvements, especially if they make logical sense.
In a romantic relationship, this might feel a little odd, but at work, this often makes him irreplaceable.
5. He’s a flirt
This man certainly has a way with words and will make you swoon on the first date.
He’s well-read, he’s got an opinion on just about anything, and he wants to impress you. He will flirt shamelessly and show you that he likes you.
He doesn’t like competition, so if you like him too, show him that he’s got your heart.
6. He can be hard to understand
And hard to pin down.
Despite appearing to be an open book, it’s hard to really tell what goes through his mind.
Getting this man to commit is tough because he’s not only indecisive and takes ages, but he’s got plenty of female attention.
A part of him keeps thinking that he’s got loads of options, so he doesn’t need to rush things.
7. He’s a social butterfly
It’s easy to spot a Libra man at a party. Similar to fellow air signs Aquarius and Gemini, he is super social.
He’s universally liked, and women gravitate towards him. It might be best if you come to terms with the fact that he will always be popular.
The worst thing you can do is feed your jealousy and try to control him.
He is the life of the party and enjoys that fact. Just accept it and you will have a chance at a successful relationship with him.
8. He’s a master at communication
He wouldn’t be an air sign if he wasn’t an expert communicator.
Not nearly as witty or flexible as a Gemini, he’s still very quick-witted and appreciates that same trait in a romantic partner.
He can cleverly tailor his opinion to your expectations, which will usually result in you being unable to disagree with him during a fight. Clever, isn’t he?
9. His adaptability makes him inconsistent
His adaptability can be a blessing and a curse at the same time.
He can easily adapt to any group and talk to anyone, but in a sense that results in him not really being here or there.
Exceptionally flexible when it comes to thinking, his energy varies extremely from one day to another.
The solution? Give him some time. Once he is really into you, he will be a bit more consistent.
10. He’s eager to please
Especially in bed! So, prepare for a wild ride, as this man will take you places in the sack.
His every kiss, stroke, and touch are intentional and full of sensuality.
He’s open to trying new things, too…is this man too good to be true?
11. He’s all about fairness
You know that a Libra man seeks balance, and with that comes justice and fairness. That means for everyone!
So, you’ll rarely find him taking sides. He likes to hear both sides of a story and make up his mind based on logic, not emotion.
The downside to that is that he won’t side with you if you are in the wrong, no matter how annoyed that makes you feel.
If you need good advice, however, he’s one of the best people to consult with.
12. He sees you as an equal
Or at least he hopes that you will allow him to. Back to the importance of self-confidence, this man tends to see his partner as an equal.
He loves being fair, so you can count on him to check in with you regarding important decisions.
13. He avoids confrontation
If there’s one thing that’s true for all Libra men, it’s that they actively avoid confrontation.
As a result, don’t expect him to own up to his mistakes much either. He might cover up his mess rather than openly admit that he failed.
He hates to be judged, so avoiding a fight comes like second nature to him.
14. He doesn’t like change
As flexible and adaptable as he is, deep down he doesn’t really do well with change.
One of the biggest shocks to his life would naturally be a breakup with someone he loved. He might take months, even years, to recover from heartbreak.
He doesn’t like disruption to his familiar environment and prefers to keep change to a minimum.
One of the biggest issues with this personality trait is that you might end up feeling stagnant in your relationship with him. Does he ever change?
As a result of this trait, he tends to get stuck in his comfort zone when it comes to his personal and professional life.
This is the man who’ll hate his job and say that he’s quitting, all the time. Yet, he’d never do it.
He’ll only ever step outside his comfort zone with the right person, someone he can truly trust.
15. He will win every argument
As much as a Libra man loves peace and avoids arguments, once he gets into one, he will likely win.
He also changes during a fight and is no longer the laid-back, chill, peace-loving person he usually is. It can be hard to accept this side of him.
The solution? Keep arguing to a minimum and try to understand where he’s coming from before getting into a more heated debate.
16. He’s an optimist
The Libra man is all about finding silver linings, no matter what. He never sees a situation as hopeless and manages to remain optimistic.
If you need a clear-headed man, he’s the one. He will help you remain hopeful for the future and focus on the positive side of things.
17. He uses humor as a coping mechanism
A Libra man doesn’t like to be pressured or challenged. Therefore, he often defers to jokes as a way of coping with change.
He uses his quick wit to get out of most awkward situations, which is kind of cute but can also be annoying, especially when you really need him to be serious.
18. He lives in the moment
Want to enjoy life to the fullest? Experience the finest sides of living? Date a Libra man, and every day will feel special.
He loves to enjoy life’s finest pleasures and hopes to find a partner who matches his taste.
Libra man in love
Once this man falls in love, expect him to make you the center of his world. He is an extremely loyal boyfriend and will never do anything to intentionally hurt you.
It’s unlikely that a Libra will cheat on you, no matter how popular he seems to be amongst women.
Libra man in a relationship
In a relationship, he seeks balance, stability, and companionship.
He wants to share his life and interests with the woman he’s with and will only ever open up fully to someone he truly trusts.
As a social creature, expect that there will often be people around him. He loves having friends over and meeting new people.
How to make him miss you
If you want your Libra man to miss you, you need to give him space and be patient with him. When you are around him, you have to project self-confidence.
When you are apart, show that you trust him, and you don’t need to know what he’s doing (or thinking) every waking moment.
Can you trust him?
While a Libra man will take a while to open up and fully commit to you, once he does, he will be 100% devoted to you.
However, if you’re not sure how serious he is about you, better not get your hopes too high as he can be a little too-faced just like his fellow air sign Gemini.
Once committed, he will have a very hard time letting go of you. He is terribly afraid of losing the one he loves.