Prove to him you are dedicated to your family. The cancer man is extremely family-oriented and looks forward to one day raising his own family.
This is very important to him. Getting along well with his family as well as your own is a turn-on for him.
Treat your mother with respect, and you will win his heart.
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Who should read this post?
Women looking to attract a cancer man in a heterosexual relationship. It is also for same-sex-oriented men looking to attract a mate.
Later in this post, there are segments on how to attract a cancer woman. The latter segments are for heterosexual men as well as same-sex-oriented women.
Spend a lot of time with his family
When he invites you to meet his family, accept and go with a smile. Not only does a cancer man love his family, but he values spending time with them.
If you go out of your way to be friendly to his family, you will win his heart.
Invite his family over to meet your family
If you have designs on making this man yours forever, make an effort to get both families together.
This will display to him that you are seriously committed to both families.
He will begin to envision you as the mother of his children. Who knows what could happen after that?
Display your feminine side frequently
A cancer man adores a partner who is feminine. If you want to attract him to you in the first place, allow him to see this side of you.
Dress nicely, be well-groomed, and act lady-like at all times.
Don’t be afraid of your homemaking skills
After you have determined you want to make him your own, show him your terrific homemaking skills.
Cook meals for him, keep your home neat, take up a skill such as knitting and make things for him. A cancer man truly appreciates these things.
Make him feel needed
This man has a strong desire to be needed. He has to feel like he has a purpose in your life and that his presence is imperative to you.
If you show him this early on in your relationship, you might be able to keep him around.
Make him feel appreciated
Not only does he thrive on being needed, but also appreciated. Compliment the little things he does for you. Thank him for his thoughtfulness.
Better yet, show him you appreciate him in the way you treat him. Do nice things for him and tell him how much he means to you.
Try to be neat and organized
Your cancer man definitely revels in neatness. The more organized your home and office are, the more he will notice you.
He is beginning to think of you as a life partner. If your home is always in a state of chaos, it will turn him off.
This goes for your personal appearance as well as your home.
Avoid playing unnecessary relationship games
A cancer man will not play games with your emotions. He is always straightforward and honest about his feelings towards you.
You must show him the same honesty in return. If you like to play silly games, do not expect him to want to be around you.
He fears rejection
This is perhaps one of his biggest fears. If he shows you how much he loves you and you reject him for any reason. If this occurs, be prepared to say goodbye to him.
Probably forever. He will do whatever it takes to make you happy. If you reject any of these actions, he will not react well.
He will want to involve you in activities with his friends
A cancer man has a lot of close friends. If he invites you along to participate in activities with him and them, accept this. Be friendly and sociable.
Whatever you do, never embarrass him by being rude to his friends. If you do not like one of them, be polite anyway.
Then tell your beau in an honest conversation with him later on in private.
Getting him to share his feelings
The best way to do that is to share your feelings towards him first. He will never gossip about you. He wants to know that you trust him and value your feelings.
Try not to be judgmental or full of bitterness towards anybody else.
Ways to impress a cancer man
Whether you have just met this man or have designs on keeping him to yourself, you need to know how to impress him. Follow these tips and you should win his heart.
- Be sweet and courteous to his family and friends
- Cook for him often
- Prove to him you listen when he talks to you
- Have a sense of humor, be willing to laugh at yourself
- Show an interest in his favorite activities
- Demonstrate your nurturing side to him frequently
- Be lady-like at all times – having a mouth like a sailor will turn him off
- Be optimistic as much as you can
- Help him achieve his goals
- Never make fun of his dreams
- Dress to impress, never look trashy while in his company
- Show him your empathetic side
How to attract a cancer woman
Many of the same points about how to attract a cancer man also apply to women.
Along with those, she appreciates a partner who is reassuring and gentle in nature. She approaches love in traditional ways and will expect you to do the same.
Show her you are interested
Even if a cancer woman is attracted to a potential mate, she will never make the first move.
If you want to win her over, you need to be the one to display your interest in her romantically.
Do you have a vulnerable side?
Whilst women of other sun signs find this a turn-off, the cancer woman appreciates it. She will want to take care of you and nurture you.
You can demonstrate your vulnerable side to her by revealing personal secrets in conversation. This woman will never betray your confidence.
Tell her about your goals and future plans
A cancer woman loves a mate who is goal-oriented. They do not fancy someone who meanders through life with no purpose in mind.
Once she knows what you want in life, she will do everything possible to help you achieve them. She makes the perfect partner.
She will be your biggest fan
Not only will she help guide your dreams and reach them, but she is also determined to be your biggest fan.
A cancer lady will be like a second mother to you, cheering you on each step of the way towards your goals. She won’t ever let you down.
Never keep secrets from her
You can share your innermost thoughts and opinions with a cancer female. She will keep your secrets. Just be sure you don’t keep these secrets hidden from her.
She’ll see it as a sign that you don’t trust her. Then your relationship will end. Always trust this woman to the very end, and you shall have a lasting partnership.
Love with a cancer person can last a lifetime
Once you prove to them you are the perfect mate, you will have a phenomenal love affair with this person. You have plenty to look forward to.