Being in love is a beautiful feeling. With the longing to be together again, the light brushes of hands against the skin, the escalating tension, the first few months of a new relationship are enthralling.
However, no matter how much you want to start having hot steamy moments of intimacy with your new partner, the truth is that it isn’t always easy.
Kissing and making out is such a popular method of expressing our uncontainable love for the person in front of us. While some people are loud and proud while expressing their desire and don’t mind making out in public, others are less exhibitive about it.
In fact, many find it hard to display their affection publicly and prefer doing so in a space that’s hidden from view. It’s therefore important to find a place where both partners feel equally at ease in expressing their affection.
Keep reading for the absolute best places for making out – without getting caught.
1. Dark Movie Theater
Instead of buying tickets to an expensive cinema on busy weekends, wait until the weekdays and book an afternoon screening for a movie that came out two weeks ago and isn’t doing very well.
This way, you can be certain that no one will be keeping an eye on you – making it one of the best venues for a low-key affair.
2. In an Empty Sauna
Saunas are some of the (quite literally) steamiest places to have the make-out session of your dreams.
Just turn up the heat, take off all non-essential items of clothing, and jump in for an adventure of a lifetime. As the temperature of the sauna rises, so will the steaminess of your relationship!
3. In a Parked Car
You don’t always need to go on a long drive to enjoy yourself or feel the romance budding. Some of the sexiest moments you can have are right there in your parked car, surrounded by romantic outdoor scenery.
It’s a little unconventional, but the right song to set the mood and the ample privacy of space can be just the thing to take things to the next level.
4. In an Elevator
These days, as buildings in urban cities become taller, it takes some time to reach the top level. So, how can you take advantage of elevators?
Pick the tallest building near you that isn’t too busy. Use their elevator, and when you see that no one else is inside except you, get to work. After all, you have to make the best of what little time you have!
5. In a Local Café
Local cafes are popping up all over the city these days, offering you a customized booth with complete comfort, security, and privacy too. You can do whatever you desire! Order some food, and really go to town on each other without worrying about what other people might say.
6. In an Empty Parking Lot
We know what you’re thinking – empty parking lots are where horror movies take place – but think about it, plenty of empty spaces with no one around – where else would you get this kind of privacy?
Take your partner by surprise and delight by suggesting this scintillating location, and lock lips for as long as you want. Make out like nobody’s watching – because nobody is.
7. At a Gas Station
Gas stations are hardly the ideal venue for some steamy downtime, but desperate times call for desperate measures. While everyone else is minding their business and refueling their cars, you can refuel the romance between you and your partner.
The seclusion, the oddity, and the piercing scent of gasoline in the air may set the mood for the most daring couples around.
8. In a Cornfield
If you live in a rural area or an area with some shrubbery nearby, it can double up as the ideal place to have the perfect, dreamlike make-out session. Most fields, such as that of corn, are taller than the average human – so there’s a very low chance of you getting caught.
We don’t know about you, but something about being surrounded by nature really gets us in the mood for some intimacy.
9. In a Park After Lights Out
There’s no simpler way to romance than making out in a park.
Think of it this way: on a cool summer night with the slightest aroma of newly bloomed flowers in the air, you and your beau sit on a park bench with the lights out – in each other’s arms, and with no one in sight for miles. What a perfect midsummer night’s dream!
10. In an Abandoned Building
The old-school charm of making out in an abandoned building can’t be overstated. It doesn’t need to be a Victorian mansion that’s been abandoned since World War II. An abandoned building or room can even be a friend’s place who is out for the weekend.
Bonus points if you can find romantic lighting and a comfy bed.
11. In the Backseat of a Car
Cars are similar to mini-houses. You can go anywhere, live in your car, and do whatever you want. The nicest thing is that a city is so large that you can almost certainly find at least 100 nooks and crannies where to park for hours of silence and a fantastic time with your sweetheart.
As a result, no matter where you go, your car might be one of the greatest places to make out without being discovered.
12. In a Ferris Wheel Buggy
This one is the cutest of them all. Reminiscent of the classic movie The Notebook, try to book a Ferris wheel buggy all to yourself – and tip the guy controlling it for an extra-long session.
The bright lights, music, and the giddy sugar high from the cotton candy will all add up to a delightful experience that you won’t forget anytime soon.
13. On an Empty Beach
While beaches are less than ideal for having sex, they might be the perfect pick-me-up spot for couples looking to eat each other’s faces off.
Take a wide umbrella, some sunscreen, and a picnic mat – because that’s all you’ll need. Find a remote spot on the beach and get ready for a steamy session that’ll make you guys heady with the delight of renewed love.
14. In a Cubicle
If you and your beau are coworkers in an office, the cubicle make-out session should be the perfect thing for you. Tell all your coworkers you have to work late on a project, and “complain” as you tell them you (and your partner) have to stay late.
Then, when everybody has left, embrace each other like there’s no tomorrow and have the make-out session you’ve been daydreaming about on top of a big pile of files.
15. In a Crowded Festival
This one is a bit more daring. If you ever get the chance to visit a festival, get in the mood, hide behind a tent or a stall, and get to work.
Try not to do it in front of children though – for them, the birds and bees can wait.
16. At a Drive-in Movie
Another great place to have a steamy episode of lip-locking is during a drive-in movie. Buy tickets to a movie neither of you is actually interested in, and stare into your partner’s dreamy eyes as the lights go down for the steamy session you’ve been waiting to have for ages.
A pro to this venue is that you can get a little freaky if you want. Nobody is watching. And there’s always the backseat of the car.
Why is making out so important (and fun)?
The pleasure you experience from kissing is caused by the release of a hormone called oxytocin. It is not just a hormone that makes you feel joyful; it also builds a link between you and your partner. A sense of relaxation and well-being follows the release of oxytocin.
In addition to making you feel good about yourself, making out (particularly with a new partner) can make you feel good mentally as well. Furthermore, venturing into unexplored levels of closeness with someone new can be fascinating.
- Making Out is a Flirtatious First Step Towards Intimacy
Of the 5 bases in a relationship, the first stage is usually kissing – and, subsequently, making out. If the kissing goes well, particularly on the first date, it’s a dazzling, hopeful sign of good things to come.
Moreover, making out actually helps you feel stuff out. Research shows that your body takes up the other person’s biochemical signatures when kissing – which could be an indicator of whether the person you’re locking lips with is a good match for you.
- It Raises the Sexual Stakes
You don’t have to be a biological anthropologist to understand that not all kisses are made equal. A 30-second or 1-minute make-out session, for example, is most emphatically not a peck on the lips – but it’s still chaste and possibly more along the lines of “Hey, you look nice.”
A 15-20-minute make-out session, on the other hand, would suggest a lot of passion and pent-up sexual desire between you and the other person.
- It Serves as a Reminder of What May Occur in the Future
If you’ve already had sex with someone, making out can serve as a tempting reminder — to either you or the other person — of how great you are in bed. You’ll get turned on remembering what happened the last time you made out, and you’ll be curious as to what else you’re capable of doing.
Making out is a precursor to bigger and better things.
- It Boosts Your Self-Esteem
Kissing can help you boost your self-esteem. If you kiss your partner goodbye before starting on your piling amounts of work, you’ll feel more fulfilled than usual. Because you feel connected and cherished, you’ll start your day on the right note and really feel the sun’s warm glow on your face.
- It Has Healing Properties
Believe it or not, making out has healing properties too. A hot kiss that causes your heart to race helps you cope with pain.
Your body produces adrenaline, which works in tandem with pain-relieving endorphins. A long smooch can help you get rid of a bad headache or even heartache in a matter of minutes.
The Bottom Line
Making out is all about intuition. While there are great places and steamy approaches to having a great make-out session with your partner, it’s important to know the other person’s inclinations., and have faith that they’ll go out of their way to do the same for you.
So, kissing your lover softly and sensually might be a terrific method to re-establish a connection.
If you do it for fun, you can concentrate on each other and be on the same frequency. It’s sometimes great to make out with a goal in mind. Take it slow and see where you end up.