In today’s world, we’re fortunate to be able to be more connected to people than we ever did before. Some of us, though, can often crave being closer and having that extra bit of nurture. We seek out more cuddles, kisses, sexual intimacy, and touch to get closer to the person we love or enjoy being around.
Even when we have enough touch and sexual contact, we’re often still left wanting more – like a void that needs to be filled, but you don’t know how to.
There is a way to fill that void – through an adult nursing relationship. Keep reading to find out more.
What is an Adult Nursing Relationship?
An adult nursing relationship involves two adults, one breastfeeding off the woman. We get it – it seems like a strange concept. In reality, it can be a quite unique experience for both parties.
- There must be consent from both individuals. This could either be a heterosexual or same-sex couple, or just two individuals who want to participate in adult nursing.
- By no means is this an infantile relationship. It’s merely a relationship that gives pleasure and arouses the individuals. Most people who do this tend to feel sexual or comforted, as it fills the intimate void they crave to fill.
- The woman doesn’t have to be pregnant or lactating. Breast milk is not the critical point here; it’s more about the women nursing the other person by having them sucking on her breasts.
To understand the concept further, we have to understand the benefits for both genders, and why people would want to take part in adult nursing.
Why Should Adult Men Nurse?
It’s important to note that not all men are interested in sucking on their partner’s breasts; however, some may love it. If you’re with your partner and want to find a way to introduce the idea to them, scroll down for some tips.
1. It stimulates their curiosity.
How long have you been with your partner? Whether it’s been a few months or years, you might be curious about how men’s private parts work – and they’re probably equally as intrigued about what it’s like to be a woman and have breasts.
When sucking on them, their curiosity might be satisfied, as they’ll feel a sensation in their mouth as opposed to just looking at them. Likewise, if the breasts are lactating, then they’ll get even more pleasure.
2. They feel nurtured and well cared for.
Coming back to what we mentioned earlier about men craving more, adult nursing relationships can provide a sense of nurture. First of all, breastfeeding is a typical maternal role, and men start to fantasize about it, as it reminds them of their mother and they want to feel looked after.
Likewise if lactating, everything produced by the body is natural, and often men enjoy this as they feel more connected to the person in front of them and the world around them.
Sometimes our bodies just desire this. Especially when men have not had a great relationship with their mother growing up and need this void to be filled, some men are craving for that care they lacked in childhood.
3. They fantasize about lactating breasts.
Another reason why men may like it is that it satisfies their sexual fetishes. While there a wide range of sexual fetishes out there, believe it or not, a common one is lactation.
Many men find the thought of lactating breasts a massive turn-on. Sometimes they don’t know the reason why they’re turned on, but they are. Once might even be enough for them; once they’ve had their sexual fantasy fulfilled, they may not need to participate in it again.
4. Men crave the taste.
You may be surprised, but the man you’re with or who wants to be with you may have tasted breastmilk or suckled on another woman’s nipples before.
Similarly, they may have been breastfed a lot when young and crave the taste as a form of nostalgia. Finally, males may have only tried from a breast pump previously and want to try it from the breast.
5. It can benefit their health.
If your man is interested in sucking on your breasts and trying your milk, it may be because of its positive health effects. Breast milk has special compounds that can help reduce the risk of Crohn’s disease and arthritis, build muscle mass, aid the immune system, and provide more energy.
Why Should Women Breastfeed Another Adult?
Now you have a bit of insight into why some men would like to be breastfed, let’s investigate why women might like breastfeeding adults. Let’s not stick to assumptions – it’s not only one party that likes to do this.
1. They get aroused.
Many women out there instantly get aroused when the man or woman they’re with touches their nipples. This can be through the form of playing, licking, and touching. When it comes to adult nursing, this is a lot more intense – and many women get turned on by it.
2. It can increase milk supply for their baby.
It’s not unusual for women to want to produce more milk for their babies. When their breasts are stimulated more often, they can produce large amounts of milk. Men can be a great help with this, and it can make them satisfied and produce more. It’s a win-win scenario, as it helps both parties.
3. It can help balance uneven breasts.
Sometimes a lot of milk can build up in one breast, with less in the other, making her breasts unbalanced. For women, this can become frustrating when they’re wearing certain clothes, and uneven breasts might make them uncomfortable. To ease their frustration, their man can focus on sucking the bigger one to balance them again.
How to Initiate an Adult Nursing Relationship
Adult nursing relationships are not a new concept; they’ve been around for a long time. However, initiating the conversation can be a bit daunting. Read on for a guide to make this experience as stress-free as possible.
1. Speak with confidence, and be honest.
If you’re a woman, confidence is key to beginning an adult nursing relationship. It’s important, to be honest with the man you’re with about why you want to do it and its benefits.
Most of the time, this is easier if you and he are both up for doing it. However, if it’s just you, you may need to provide some stats, do background research and persuade him.
Plus, this is where honesty comes in; a relationship requires you both to be open. Chat about your feelings, and ask about his too.
2. Consider the purpose of the adult nursing relationship.
When it comes to breastfeeding males, you should consider why you want to or he wants to take part. Is it for sexual arousal, to provide nurture, or stimulate more milk? Discuss these goals before you begin breastfeeding.
Make sure you’re in the right environment and that the setting is suitable for your discussion.
Once you’ve both come to a decision, set the mood accordingly. For instance, if you’re doing it for arousal, you might want to wear sexy lingerie. Similarly, if it’s for nurture, you might want to be in a comfortable room.
3. Start with nipple play.
If you’re doing this for the first time and not sure where to start, don’t dive in straight away. The best way to start is to begin playing with your nipples.
This action will help with stimulation and allow your breasts to get ready to provide more milk if you’re lactating. Likewise, it’s an excellent introductory technique to get the man prepared for breastfeeding. Simply encourage him to lick, suck, play and massage to get him in the mood.
4. Experiment more in the bedroom.
This is especially important if you’ve never tried anything “new” in the bedroom before. Before beginning, you might want to try some new ways to bring excitement under the sheets and improve the sex life of your relationship. Here are some ideas you can try:
- Having a quickie in a public place
- Exercising naked
- Dressing your male partner as a woman
- Looking for more ways to please each other
5. Begin adult nursing.
It may feel like you’re not doing it quite right in the beginning, but don’t worry – that’s normal.
It can take some time to get into a rhythm or routine. Likewise, if you’re undergoing an adult nursing relationship for lactation reasons, milk might not come out right away. Start with ways that will help you lactate more.
How to Start Lactating and Increase Milk Supply
When it comes to lactating, it doesn’t have to be a specific mother and baby bond. In fact, their breasts can easily be triggered to lactate at other times too! There are ways to get breast milk out of your body without being pregnant or having recently given birth!
1. Take Hormones
When you’re pregnant or with a child, your hormone levels fluctuate a LOT. Just after a child is born, there’s an increase of prolactin in the body, making the breasts produce milk. If you’re not pregnant and wanting to embrace an adult nursing relationship, you can take these hormones.
Certain hormones can help initiate lactation and will allow your partner to enjoy it. To know which hormones to take, do some research or contact a professional who specializes in lactation so they can advise you on what to take and what’s safe for your body.
2. Take Supplements
Similar to the hormones above, there are supplements you can take that will help with the lactation process. Galactagogues supplements are available without any prescription.
Remember to stick to the instructions that come with the supplement. Taking more than directed may not mean you’ll lactate more!
3. Keep Stimulating The Breasts
Have your partner arouse you and get the breasts stimulated before the session begins. The best way to do this is by massaging your breasts and sucking your nipples.
If your partner isn’t there, you may wish to use a breast pump. Ideally, it’s best to do this four times a day and do it in equal amounts on both sides to prevent them from being uneven. If you do this consistently for a month, you may start producing milk.
The Bottom Line
Adult nursing relationships are not a new relationship – they’ve existed for a while. Many people start the relationship for arousal and a sense of nurture.
It can be nerve-wracking to introduce this idea to your partner, so make sure the setting is right and both partner’s feelings and opinions are exchanged out in the open. Once this relationship begins, there’s a lot of benefits.
It can satisfy a man’s curiosity, enhance sex life, and if lactating, there’s a range of health benefits too. You don’t have to be pregnant or with a child to lactate; there are supplements and hormones to take, and you can even use a breast pump to start producing milk.
Remember initiating the conversation is important and it can depend on your partner’s personality. Read about the 5 different types of couples to see which personality type your partner is.